Showing posts with label homesteading with kids. Show all posts
Showing posts with label homesteading with kids. Show all posts

Monday, August 12, 2019

Soap Making Fun



As a self proclaimed wannabe homesteader there's a whole lot of fun 'back-to-basics' projects I enjoy doing. One of them happens to be making cold processed lye soap. I've been making soap for many years, it was actually one of the first homesteading skills I learned to do. The funny thing is, I've never veered from making my plain old fashion soap recipe. I never add anything fancy to it like dyes, essential oils, or oats. I just prefer the plain old classic, unadulterated lye soap recipe to all the others ~  and besides it works, so why mess with it??


I know a lot of folks freak out over making lye soap, but it's really not that difficult or as hazardous as most people make it out to be. I mean if you've ever used bleach or any basic store-bought cleaner you've dealt with a potentially hazardous chemical in your home ~ and lived to tell about it. As long as you use safe handling measures, you should be perfectly fine. I always keep white vinegar out on the counter ready to use in the event we have a spill with the lye, because the white vinegar will neutralize the lye.


When I'm making my soap, I try to make sure the little ones are occupied just to be on the safe side. Which is no different than when I'm cleaning or using bleach. But, I do like to encourage my bigger kiddos to help me make the soap. I'm extremely passionate about my children learning the art of dying homesteading skills. Thankfully, my children typically enjoy making the soap. 😊


Learning what 'trace' looks like can be one of the hardest soap making steps to master, but once you get it, you get it. When I'm looking for trace, to me, the soap resembles the consistency of pudding. I've always used my electric stick blender to help speed up the process to get us to trace. And yes that would be the same eclectic stick blender I use for canning and making baby food. I thoroughly clean the stick blender after making soap and then we're good to go for it's next use, regardless if it's for food or another soap making day.


I've used an assortment of different soap molds throughout the years, but my favorite are silicone molds and my wooden block molds that my dad made me. When I am making soap in the summer, the heat and humidity tend to make it super difficult for the soap to get hard. Since the soap doesn't harden so well it can be quite troublesome to remove it from the silicone molds no matter how much I grease them.

My wooden block soap molds are my favorite molds. I never have to worry about the soap not being hard enough to get a decent block of soap. And I happen to think it's a classic look for soap, lol. The only notable thing about using my wooden block soap mold is that the soap never turns as white as my silicone molds. I'm sure it has to do with the heat distribution during the curing process, but my soap in the wooden block molds are always more opaque than white.


I'd exclusively use my block molds, but my children prefer the silicone molds over my block soap mold. It all works out though, because my soap recipe makes just enough for me to use one large block soap mold and a couple silicone molds. I always let the children pick out which silicone molds they want to use. And just a little frugal side note: all of my silicone molds have either been given to me or bought on deep clearance after holidays. None of them are traditional soap molds, but all were intended for baking. Since our family is the only one who uses the soap, the odd soap shapes don't bother us, lol.

Making soap is not really a modern necessity, but it is a fun skill to learn. To be perfectly honest it's probably more expensive to make the homemade soap than to just buy it from the store. But, that's ok for me. I happen to like the fact that I know all the ingredients in the soap I make. I like doing old-fashion activities that help tie me to those authentic homesteaders from days gone by. But mostly, I enjoy spending time with my children teaching them life skills that their ancestors did as a way of life.

Over the years our homesteading efforts have ebbed and flowed depending on mine and my husbands external responsibilities. In the grand scheme of things I think we'd both like to live a permanent homesteading lifestyle, but it just isn't where the Lord has us right now. This summer has been super tough on our family with maintaining our huge garden, canning, my husband's job, and the basic demands of life. We're constantly reevaluating is this lifestyle where God wants us to be, and how much time, money, and energy should we invest in pursuing this not-so-easy lifestyle.

Thankfully, the many life-skills we have acquired as a family over the years will never be for naught; even if the Lord closes this door for our family. (I'm not saying He is) I have cherished every minute spent learning along-side my husband and children. I believe this no-frills, simple life, is the best life to promote family unity as well as instill in children a strong and honest work ethic. So while soap making day may seem like just another useless modern day, expensive activity to some; for us it's a prime outlet to teach valuable life lessons, refine another homesteading skill, but mostly, an opportunity to enjoy being together as a family. And my dear friends, I don't think it can get much better than that. 💗

With Love & Hope,
Jennifer

Thursday, June 27, 2019

Homesteading with Boys: The Low Tech Life

the low tech life
I am a boy mom seven times over. Life is aways loud and rambunctious. It's not always easy being one of the minority genders in our home, especially when the testosterone is running high. Even with all that, I wouldn't change it for the world.

Homesteading with boys is the perfect life if you ask me. It's the best and perfect way to prepare them to be real men. My boys love to be outside. Mind you we only have one acre of land, but they always seem to find all sorts of creative ways to spend their time outside ~ and for that I'm grateful.

Give my boys some tools and some scrap building materials and you never know what you're going to get. Recently, my 12 and 10 year old boys spent several days building a "shop". They received zero help for any adult besides their 18 year old brother helping to cut some metal. To say I was impressed by the finished product, is putting it mildly!

Their little shop could easily pass as a crude cabin from days gone by! When I think of all the lifeskill AND academic lessons they had to use for their special building project, I'm convinced they're going to be just fine when it comes to securing jobs in the future. There's so much more to an education than sitting at a desk staring at a textbook. Sometimes the best teacher is just trial and error and figuring things out for yourselves. But, the opportunity must be available, children have to be given the time, resources, and confidence to experiment with what they can actually do.

Our current society seems to be convinced that modern tech is the way to go. Well, sorry y'all I'm just not convinced. And, it's in moments like these, when my children use their minds and hands to create something so awesome, that I know our alternative lifestyle is perfect for us. Our kids have limited access to technology. I'm not 100% anti technology, but I am very pro keeping devices in the background of our daily lives. Our children do have allowed time for tv gaming and family tv watching it's just not a regular facet of our day.

Our children do not have cell phones (yeah, not even my 16 year old and he manages a successful business), they don't have tablets, or computers. We do have computers and tablets, but they don't belong to our children and they are strictly used in a supervised environment for the purpose of education or research. For our family, technology is a tool used to help us grow in knowledge not a means of pleasure time. For us there's just so many better ways the children can spend their time. One of them is for them to get outside and get creative.

Do I ever hear "I'm bored!" "There's nothing to do!" Um, yeah, plenty of times, but that's when I encourage my children to keep searching for something to do or I put them to work (trust me there's endless work that needs to be done around this homestead!) That usually sparks their creativity bone and they run off to do something on their own or with a sibling, lol.

I realize this way of thinking and raising children isn't the norm, and I'm ok with that. We aren't living our days to keep up with the world, we're here to follow the calling God has in our lives; and for us, living a simple life and teaching our children to use their minds and their hands is simply part of that lifestyle choice. I'm not here to convince you this is the only way to live. My goal is to encourage parents to put technology on the back burner for a bit, and allow their children to use their God-given creative spirit. You might just be a little surprised at what your children can do. 😊

With Love & Hope,
Jennifer

the low tech life

This is a picture of my 'shop building crew' working 
in the pouring down rain to get their shop finished.